Slow Down: Sacrifice for Impact

Clarity, Debt, Free Spirit, Gentle Change, Minimalism, Minimalist

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It’s so easy to forget our mission in life when busyness, procrastination, clutter, and to-do-lists overtake our time. It seems a majority of us are in the cycle and it seems there is no way out. At some point, we accept it and just call it ‘adulthood.’ And once we name it, we own it. We tick through the rest of our life vaguely aware of our surroundings. Guilt seeps in when we want to take time for ourselves. We become weak, agitated, frustrated, and overwhelmed. We continue at this pace because we are supposed to.

I’d like to meet the person who told all of use that we have to live this way.

Because I truly think this ‘person’ does not exist at all.

This ‘person’ could be society. We feel that we have to compete with others and one-up our status. This one-upmanship is also known as Keeping-Up-With-The-Jones. Sure, we all agree that this keeping-up is not the best way to live – but if we are honest, we live that way anyway.

Our Facebook post has to look cuter than someone else’s. Our car has to look fancy so we can show everyone that we do, in fact, have a job and are contributing to the pot of society. The American Dream is being lived, y’all! But at the end of the day it’s no dream at all. We know it deep down, but we can’t break this cycle because we don’t want to come across as lazy, unfit, or less-than.

So, debt and possession rule our lives. It comes in between us and our families. We have no friends, because we have to work ourselves to the bone to pay for that new loveseat. It’s cute though, but unfortunately we don’t have time to host friends over because we are at work. And when we aren’t at work, we are at home cleaning, organizing, and moving around our stuff.

When our friends ask us how we have been or what we’ve been up to lately we respond:

Busy.

Yes, we have been busy. We’ve been busy trying to create a lucrative life at the hands of our employer. We’re busy thinking about acquiring a luxury lifestyle and living beyond our means.

We haven’t been busy contributing to what’s most important, which I feel safe to say is:

  • Family
  • Helping
  • Serving
  • Resting
  • Relaxing
  • Creating
  • Wanderlusting
  • Traveling
  • Exploring

Those are my most important things in life. And I’ve neglected those things for far too long.

It takes time to shift to a more simple, deliberate, slow lifestyle. But, when we realize that we need to change our path and begin to clear the distractions: clutter, busyness, overwhelm, we can gain clarity and shift focus to what’s truly important.

We won’t be remembered for our career, but we will be remembered for our impact.

There’s more to life than just paying bills and then you die.

I’m not willing to sacrifice my life for stuff and status. I am however, willing to sacrifice my life for change, memories, and impact.

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3 thoughts on “Slow Down: Sacrifice for Impact

  1. Excellent thoughts. It’s so easy to go through life putting effort into the wrong pursuits for the wrong reasons. Marsha Sinter, author of “Do What You Love, The Money Will Follow,” has written at length about these issues. I think she would say that people who have correctly identified their “life’s work” and are “devoted” to that work, probably have the greatest impact. Such people can enjoy their work so authentically and focus on work so intently that they even forget to eat.

    However, I think Ms. Sinetar would acknowledge that such a path is not for everyone, not by a long shot. I think she’s talking mostly to people who have unusual talent or abilities. We probably all have something we should be doing with our lives, but not everyone is blessed with unusual talent, intellect, or ability. We don’t have to attempt to force ourselves to be as “good” or “productive” or “fast” as other people. I’ve often fallen into the trap of trying to match or exceed others around me.

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    1. That is so true and very insightful. I’d love to read that book; I’ll put it on my reading list! Sounds intriguing! It’s not always feasible for everyone to follow their ‘mission’ because, well, we all have to keep the lights on 🙂 I’ve also fallen into the trap of trying to exceed or match others in the workplace especially in something that’s really just not my ‘thing.’ When that’s the case, it’s exhausting!

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